How Much to Spend on a Wedding Gift: Guide for Guests


By Black's
14 July 2025
Wedding gift-giving can feel like a maze of unspoken rules, shifting expectations, and cultural nuances. It’s perfectly normal to wonder: How much are you actually expected to spend? Should your budget change if you’re a close friend, a distant relative, or simply attending as a plus-one?
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How Much to Spend on a Wedding Gift: Guide for Guests

Wedding gift-giving can feel like a maze of unspoken rules, shifting expectations, and cultural nuances. It’s perfectly normal to wonder: How much are you actually expected to spend? Should your budget change if you’re a close friend, a distant relative, or simply attending as a plus-one?
As a proudly Canadian brand, Black’s is dedicated to helping you celebrate life’s meaningful moments with thoughtful, personalized gifts. In this guide, we explain how much to spend on a wedding gift, offer suggested budgets based on your relationship to the couple, and share unique, customizable gift ideas that go beyond the traditional registry.
How Much Should You Spend on a Wedding Gift?
Figuring out the right amount to spend on a wedding gift can be tricky, especially with varying expectations based on your relationship with the couple, the type of wedding invitation you receive, and whether it’s a destination wedding or a local celebration.
Here are some general benchmarks (according to conventional wedding etiquette) to help you decide:
- Acquaintances or Coworkers: $50–$75. Ideal if you're a wedding guest attending solo or as someone's plus-one, or if you're also covering travel expenses or accommodations.
- Friends or Extended Family: $75–$125. Consider pairing a moderate gift with a thank-you card.
- Close Family or Best Friends: $125–$200+. This range allows for group gifts, custom art, or items with initials engraved, a perfect blend of value and sentiment.
No matter the amount, personalization and thoughtfulness can often outweigh the price tag. Whether it’s a hand-selected item or something tailored to the couple’s journey, your gift should reflect effort, respect for the wedding planning process, and consideration for the couple’s future.
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Is It Okay to Give a Gift That’s Not in the Couple’s Registry?
Yes, giving a gift that isn’t on the registry is perfectly acceptable, especially if it’s thoughtful and personal. A customized or meaningful item can feel more special than a standard registry pick. Just be sure the gift suits the couple’s style and adds genuine value to their new life together.
Thoughtful Wedding Gift Ideas by Budget: Personalized Options from Black's
Wedding Gifts Under $50
This range is perfect for coworkers, distant relatives, or if you're attending the wedding as a plus-one. Even with a modest budget, you can still give a meaningful gift that leaves a lasting impression:
- Personalized Photo Mug: A classic off-registry item that adds a personal touch with the couple’s initials or engagement photo.
- Custom 4x6 or 5x7 photo prints in a sleek keepsake frame: Ideal for commemorating their engagement party or honeymoon.
- Mini photo book: A small but thoughtful collection of memories for the couple to enjoy together.
These personal gifts are affordable yet emotional, showing genuine effort. In a wedding season full of cookie-cutter registry lists and generic gift cards, something heartfelt can stand out.
Wedding Gifts Under $100
This price point is great for friends, extended family, or if you're part of a bridal shower or group gifting arrangement. You can give something elegant and sentimental without breaking your wedding budget:
- Canvas Prints of the couple’s engagement shoot or favorite travel moments: A beautiful addition to their home décor.
- Custom Photo Calendar: Mark important dates like their wedding anniversary, birthdays, or even honeymoon travel plans.
- Photo Puzzle: Adds a fun, interactive element to the gift and works well as a bridal shower gift idea.
These gifts are emotionally rich, and while they may not be on the wedding registry, they’re thoughtful gestures that never go out of style. They work beautifully alongside wedding shower gifts.
Wedding Gifts Over $150
Reserved for close family, best friends, or members of the wedding party, this tier allows for more high-ticket items and truly standout options:
- Deluxe Photo Book: With premium materials, lay-flat pages, and luxury covers, it’s custom-designed to preserve their best memories.
- Gallery-Wrapped Canvas Set: Turn their wedding ceremony or honeymoon experience into stunning personalised artwork for their new home.
- Premium Wall Art: These keepsakes bring warmth, comfort, and elegance, ideal for couples building a life together.
These personalized and high-quality photo items add a tradition-meets-modernity flair that won’t go unnoticed.
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Unique Wedding Gift Ideas from Black's
When the goal is to stand out from the usual cash wedding gift or registry list item, Black's offers a selection of creative, heartfelt gifts you won’t find anywhere else. These picks are perfect for guests who want to add a personal touch:
- Framed Star Map: Mark the couple’s wedding date or engagement night with a custom star map print. These celestial-themed gifts are visually stunning and make for great conversation starters, ideal for a couple who appreciates custom art and stargazing romance.
- Photo Collage Wall Panel: Tell their love story through a multi-photo panel display. Choose moments from the engagement shoot to create a cohesive and emotional décor piece.
- Personalized Wedding Thank You Card Set: Help the couple prepare for post-wedding gratitude with custom thank you cards designed with a stunning photo. This is a thoughtful off-registry gift that’s useful and a great addition to a group gift or honeymoon fund contribution.
- Custom Recipe Book with Family Photos: Turn cherished family recipes into a printed keepsake book, layered with nostalgic family photos. This is perfect for food-loving couples!
- Photo Memory Box for Wedding Cards & Keepsakes: After the wedding ceremony, couples often struggle with where to store cards, mementos, and little treasures. This is a beautifully printed memory box that offers both function and sentiment. It’s great for preserving those meaningful congratulations cards and reception favors.
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Why Choose a Personalized Wedding Gift?
In today’s world of mundane gift lists, cash funds, and one-size-fits-all presents, a personalized wedding gift stands out as a meaningful gesture that aligns with both modern and traditional etiquette.
Here’s why it’s a smart choice:
- Emotional value over price tag: Personalized gifts often mean more than what the price tag suggests. They show care, effort, and emotional investment, far beyond a standard gift voucher.
- Helps couples relive their story: A framed print from their early days together or a keepsake featuring their initials lets the couple revisit those meaningful milestones time and time again.
- Ideal for avoiding gift duplication: A wedding gift custom-made by you is unlikely to overlap with anything on the couple’s registry, helping you sidestep awkward wedding faux pas.
- Black’s products are made in Canada and easy to send: With direct shipping available, there’s no need to carry bulky gifts or stress over delivery timing. This is perfect for destination weddings or when keeping wedding expenses in check.
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Make It Personal: Thoughtful Wedding Gifts from Black's
At Black's, we believe every gift should tell a story. That’s why we offer a wide range of customizable photo products, made right here in Canada, that turn meaningful moments into lasting keepsakes.
Whether you’re shopping for a wedding, a bridal shower, or a special milestone, we make it easy to create something personal, heartfelt, and beautifully made. With direct shipping, high-resolution printing, and timeless designs, we’re here to help you celebrate love in the most memorable way.